He want listen to me treats me like im a child. If you like him, you like him right? Before you call the authorities, it should be noted that I was in my early 30s and he was in his early 20s. He might want to settle down earlier than you if you do start to date because he is older. That means I have to stand back at times I wish I could just step in. Are those really the thoughts that people use to make the most important decisions in their life? Now, most people who don't know us well assume that we're the same age, or that I'm actually a little older than her -- and no, she hasn't had plastic surgery or anything like that. So girl you got my fully support, dont let anyone bring you down, you too sound cute together. We seem to be pretty close.
I think what i fear the most is the aging of my body, like i will not be the same in 10 years, and he will still in his mid 30s. I can spend all day in his arms, and I really do love, and would marry this guy. If you are under the age of 18 and he is not and you end up in a relationship he could go to jail for statutory rape. Also, age and context is again important to know in order to provide an informed opinion here. Any advice input would be appreciated. I wasn't ready to be in that relationship. Pros: Stability An older man usually has an established work, social and home life.
When your in love, its like your the only two on that planet. I tried to qoute this but it was being a stupid piece of grabage again. If it's equal in give and take. Share your experiences and help others. Keep these potential problems in mind before you commit. If the guy is more attractive to you at his age than your peers of your age, he probably has just plain good genetics. She's got her life together, has a career, and best of all, inspires me to chase my dreams.
Also, what he is saying to you if I'm reading it right is that they get all weird and then he dumps them. Although I'm also into younger girls and girls the same age as me so. Drinks, dinner, and gifts all on his dime. Quote: Please note his disparaging view of women he's been involved with, and presumably had sex with, in the past. One of my friends has a 6 or 7 year age gap with her chap and they've been together 8 years. It can be a bigger deal at your age if you are at the stage where you hadn't quite figured out exactly who you are yet.
Older men don't typically seem to waste time on flirting. I personally feel awkward when the male is younger, but I know a great successful marriage where the wife is 5 years older. Ask your hairdresser if you have any confusion. If you were ready for such relationships, you should not be pursuing someone who is currently in a relationship. My mum still isnt happy. I think the conversation actually happened but do not think he was serious.
Try to create a balance. I like talking to him and I don't want to make things awkward between us. Thanks SpecialK, that was a great point you made. Is this a huge gap? All right, so no one knows what they really want, but we've got a job, if not a career, and some money saved up, because we already did that thing where you spend all your money and then have no money. So your goals, priorities, experiences, etc.
If you two get along, then why let 7 years bother the relationship? We know what works and what doesn't. I think the biggest thing is being in the same kind of place in life. As long as you know him well enough to judge him properly I dont think there is a problem. Go out with him and have a nice time together but really look how he reacts to things not only towards you but others as well ad figure out his life story so you guys can get more connected and truly know each other. For instance, if you want to go out and party with your older boyfriend, he might be at a part of his life where he's had his fun and prefers a night indoors.
Most teenage girls tend to be very jealous at that stage in their lives. This isn't our first time at the vagina rodeo, if you know what I mean. Let him take the lead. All it takes is a couple or even one relationship where one lets his or her feelings go with someone who turns out to have a serious complex or psychotic borderline personality disorder to wreck a person's heart. While it can be a great experience dating someone with more years on you, a potential older boyfriend will be looking for more than a guy your own age.