Well low and behold one week before she was coming he told me. Walking down the street, hearing a sound, smelling a familiar smell, and I am transorpted into a whirl wind of memories. We went to lunch a couple of times a week. Don't you think that he felt that way about his wife before they married. Well, that was a bitter poison pill to swollow and I choked. I don't expect from him to leave his wife, his family.
In my marriage I felt that I had given 150% of the 200% that should have been from the two of us - i gave too much, that's why I wanted out. Therefore, do not give this man space. How did you women find the strength to do it? Sometimes I don't believe everything he tells me, maybe I'm naïve. I prefer it that way. He did say that he too unexpectedly and inadvertently fell in love with me too. You are so correct, holiday times…….
I knew and he knew I knew as well as she knew I knew. They would dine on opposite side of towns. Who has no idea of him and his lies and deciet. He wanted to use me for sex and swapping with other married couples. Identify the pattern and nip it in the bud. I developed feelings for him but I haven't confronted him yet about what I know. Your choice would be is either to stay in that love triangle or leave, if your needs are not fully met.
Love doesn't have reason, love doesn't care about gender, age, race, or social position. Every couple will go through this in the later years of the relationship. He was not going to get a divorce. Men usually stray when they have given up on the relationship their in. Remember girls, we are winners for taking charge of our lives. Unless he is a gazillionaire that did not sign a pre-nup, I would say he is leading you on.
At least moderately successful men don't. Please if you are in a relationship with a married man get out before he destroys your heart. Or maybe deep down you secretly enjoy the secrecy and lies, dishonesty and pain of having an affair with a married man. From the time I open my eyes till I close them he is constantly in touch with me. I told him that i am seeing someone else who wants to marry me which is true but i cant stop missing him.
What do you think should i do? I was hoping it was because he missed me. I got tired of my life in limbo. Well that was odd if she was so mad that she found out about us and divorcing too. The chemistry we have is crazy. I , learned that I had to take care of my feelings appropriately, and not let another married or verbally separated man convince me of his love. Do something good for yourself, work out, best revenge, have a great honest life. Then you will know what to do.
All this feeling makes me unhappy, I can't feel the joy of the relationship. Do you think you just pick the wrong kind of men? It took just over 10 years after the divorce for me to finally find out why my 2nd husband suddenly started to become abusive to me totally out of the blue for no reason when there was no problem in our marriage. Like you, I feel very sad for his wife. He shares all his problems, tensions with me. But it would also make me feel like shit, like maybe I never mattered at all. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. We don't sleep together and haven't for a very long time.
Its the same over and over, time wasted. No matter how much you may want to walk in the sunshine with him and have him openly acknowledge his love for you, it won't happen. I really see where you are coming from because I know it is true. I asked if that was the truth, and he said absolutely. His wife knows about my relationship with him because she has been sending me emails stating that she does not hate me- i have never responded to any.
I never did anything to hurt him. He began to confide into his friends that me and him were together and we began to meet up with them as a couple also. I console myself by thinking that he has married me because he loves me and not just as a way to satisfy me and keep me happy. I still look good for my age but let's face it, I'm old now. You can't just turn off switch of how you feel.