He said that if I cant fix it then he wants to seperate. I feel as though I have married my ex. Most likely they won't be able to see you for a few days, and you can use that time to decided if an abortion is really what you want. Does this girl love him? I have explained to him why I feel the way that I do, and asked that he be sensitive to my emotional needs, especially in the last six weeks of my pregnancy. Which is really hard to explain to my husband since he works all day and I am a stay at home mom. I'm scared to say it's over because where will I go and what what will I do. .
Anxiety during and after pregnancy is very serious. They may fake it until they can make it. Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below. . People told me not to worry but I was so depressed that I thought I would resent her and not be able to bond. He's not looking at the big picture which is his wife needs his support! When you rest well, your baby is well rested.
He has a good job, is very loving to our son and our dog comes from a good family where his parents have been married 40+ years. We do need to try, to express ourselves, and to be heard. They have counselors that can help you find an option that will work best for your life. I'm still trying to establish good breast feeding and nervous about doing that in public. At face value, my husband seems like a really good man.
I'm pregnant and somewhat happy about it but worried about all the stress it will bring! I was really successful in my sales job in my first year, but eventually he started resenting my work. Someone who refuses to wear condoms is not someone anyone should be in a relationship with. I know that's how I feel. Does anyone have any suggestions on what to do to get rid of it??? We have our 20 weeks scan next week so I'm just hoping all this stress hasn't done any harm Thank you all again x Wow, your husband. I've stooped caring about exposing my boobs on public. Light cramps can be caused by early pregnancy hormonal shifts and implantation of the fertilized egg on your uterine lining. My life ended up somewhere I did not think I wanted it to be.
To a lazy cow with no character. Depression or anxiety is never someone being a coward or unable to handle what is going on. I just wanted to thank everyone that posted their similar experiences here. Feelings like this are normal. I had these symptoms before pregnancy, my doctor told me it is related to my acid reflux. There are meds that can help you! I don't know where this has come from and I feel awful for feeling this way, it's conflicting and confusing. I agree that this is a verbally abusive relationship.
They could be things called tonsil stones. I cried everyday until my fiance came home. The Lorazepam should help, but also therapy is helpful with this. I tried the moving through the day but I lose interest. This trap may be direct or indirect.
It really makes me wonder if it's just me being a cry baby or if I am normal. Either way I highly receommend couple counseling and speaking to your doc about getting yourself in a better place before the baby comes. At that point, my thoughts were almost morbid and definitely driven by hormones and lack of sleep. If you are where I am it would not be fair to the baby to raise it half assed. The anxiety and sickness just keeps coming and I don't know what to do.
I want it to pass too so I can feel like before. I feel like I have always wanted kids, but I just can't see that I will ever be able to divide myself enough ways to satisfy all the demands on me. We were very careful, but it's happened. It took awhile for my daughter to think this through, and she had all the support she could want for either decision she could have made. For me, and many other mothers and pregnant women - they do. Everyone stresses and most babies are totally, totally fine. Between the medication and therapy you should be okay.
Sounds like he has decided to move back and care for the woman and child on his own. So now he's moving back to be with her, when he's clearly said he doesn't love her, he's just doing it for the baby. My best friend had her daughter two years ago and she had the worst possible boyfriend in the world. Next, talk to your doctor about your nausea and vomitting. The idea of starting over just makes me feel sick. I have never felt this bad before. I understand how you feel; i too suffer from anxiety and its horrible.