. This is the first time I have opened up to what has been happening to me and finding it hard to put it into words, other than I broke down reading all your posts and realized I too have been around a narc. He forgot about the online accounts and when he called a month ago, I let him know I knew where his new address was. Regardless of his rejection or perhaps because of that , I slowly started to recover. He has me blocked on his phone but I managed to override the block.
Then I did no contact again for 90 days. When he came out he asked how was it? I'm Julianna, the owner and creator of this site. This is the first fall of many years i am alone now. They may say how they used to have such fun with you. I just went through the motions and prayed for sleep or death.
See, it was all a plan to slowly work his way back. He hated me saying no. Kim Saeed says November 28, 2014 Sally, if he is truly a Narcissist, then this is indeed a hoovering attempt. Sophia says February 19, 2015 My narcissist is such a good liar. It is extremely difficult to break free from a narcissistic person and mental recovery takes a long time. When would be a good time to come by to get the cable box and belongings? My second theory about the point of no return is going to sound a little strange. Because it was never about really wanting to be with you he just wanted to know he still had you.
However, I have a couple of theories that ping ponged around inside my head. I was contacted this weekend by my ex who attempted a manipulation with compliments, past pictures of myself, and then lastly his new baby after knowing I had an abortion with him a few years ago. I did things again for myself and felt happy, he contact me again. He wove such logical webs — he knew what to say to lure me in emotionally. He tells everyone I stalk him, yet he stalks me. Eventually, I told him exactly and clearly all that I really thought of him, like that he is a low life, a liar, a cheater, a hypocrite, a bigot, a loser, and a thug, just to mention a few names I called him.
He says he rhinks it would be bet…. I have not seen him since mid-December when he told me he was moving on and sleeping with someone else. Sally says November 28, 2014 I am feeling embarrassed because my narc hoovered me today and it worked. One day, after almost 3 years with this guy he sent me a video of his daughter and after that he filmed his pee in the toilet. Not long after that affairs came and went.
Evil nasty beings… You are worth so much more…. Love is a wounderful emotion to experience with another. I was hurt, felt thrown away like trash, she could care less about all the bills and the animals she left me with, then angry, all the stages of grief. Also, asked my grandma where ideas at and living cause after him cheating and moving in the new source a day after I was gone hadn't even gotten all my stuff at that point he acted like our whole relationship and our son was yesterday's used tissue said I robbed the place blind when everything was mine cause when I met him he had literally nothing but a room at his aunts house and he drove by my family's house also, did I mention he never went with me to any of my Dr appt for our son, and 2days before he put me out at 8 months pregnant, he was stating how he wanted to marry me and was going to get me a ring and seek counseling. Feels like tar being removed.
Even when I told him not to contact me again, my heart was breaking because even tho it was the right thing to do, it was hard to sever the connection for good. So he thinks he has all the sense and I have none. I know everytime I do this the N loses supply to dwell on…and it feels really good to be me again, thus cutting the cords…… I hope this helps one or the other. Now i think on my timeline of my life. She was never charged, which is a serious mistake that I made. I think this question has fascinating implications but may never be answered with any degree of certainty. This shocked me to the core.
Even told people I sexually assaulted him when it was the other way around! She contracted genital herpes and demanded unprotected sex and became extremely angry when I suggested protection. More than simply someone who likes to look in the mirror and talk about themselves, with a strong objective to objectify and an inability to empathize. We had absolutely no idea this was going on. My neighbors helped and got mevtonhospiral. Without having constant validation, a Narcissist feels dead inside. I never talk badly about my Ex to my son.