We have never been intimately involved although I feel the feelings were reciprocated until a couple of years ago when he met his current partner who I think is wonderful and he now deeply loves. It was like everything was perfect; we fit like a hand in a glove in every way. From my perspective it seems as if you have some still untesolved issue with your husband. He was there for me when I had no one else. But the basic question is why do they take such emotional and practical risks? Things to Do Take care of yourself physically, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually. We been marriage for 16 years now until today found out he still talking to her. I want all the best for my husband.
He just thinks I am depressed and tries to cheer me up as best he can. N how cani own his trust, love bk. We talk mostly about our children and my wife also. I thought everything was getting back to normal. Don't you know this already? She said that she still loved her high school boyfriend and would rather be with him. If you continue as you are now, you run the risk of losing both men. I have been suicidal for at least three years maybe up to six years because of loneliness.
After their birth I forgot how to be a wife and out my husband on the back burner. I am now ready to be done with this marriage because I can no longer trust in him. What did you want out of the 4 years when you dated him? Emotional Satisfaction For one reason or other, there may be lack of mutual understanding in the primary relationship. When in doubt, do nothing. I'm in exactly the same situation.
Everyone takes people for grantsd. I dont want to leave her. My boss tried to firer me after finding out! For years I doubt it in the existence of personal God instead of abstract force. We decided to meet last Thursday just for. It will take some time to really figure out. If you try to uproot your entire life and recreate a new marriage with the mistress or mantress , it never works out the way you planned or wanted. He has physically hit me.
We are now a triad! Please help me with your prayers to salvage my marriage and maybe get a better job, and God bless you all. I invited her back into our marriage as long as she can come clean and show remorse. They loved my now husband more than me i think. However, now this week he is saying he is not in love with her like that, but is scared I will hurt him after a couple of months. This is also one of the biggest assets to penetrate into her heart and save the marriage again.
Can you please tell how it worked for you? When I thought I would never fall in love again? Mark is never like that. We have 3 beautiful children right now. In hind-sight we rushed it. Do you think she could indeed get back to me? We have a business together and I too am in love with another man and have been for 15 years. Is there anyone that your wife respects who is willing to intervene and ask her to consider saving her marriage. He would also strongly recommend that you either get out of the military if you want a great marriage in the future or at least make sure you are in a field of service that doesn't require separations. On the other hand I do not feel that I can really love him.
I know this didnt just happen over nite her wanting to seperate. I have been warning him for a while that she seems to have no boundaries. She doesnt want to be married. Ugh he drives me crazy, but i think I am not ready yet to break up with him. Like you said about your husband in this post, he is the most kind, thoughtful, and caring man.
But what am i doing to myself if i decide to ever take him back after all he has put me through? And these are activities your husband might enjoy, too. We were in our upper teens when we got married. He was and is someone I look up to and ultimately feel comfortable with. That he wishes that he had done things differently and that he wonders what would have happened if we had tried to work things out. I have been married for 7 and been involved with a wonderful man I have known for 11 years.