Hon, I am trying to give you some reality about where you two are at. A pregnant woman always wants to know that her man cares and is excited about the baby. I understand the sex was the cause of any tension, i am sure she never meant it to happen. And let me say that you are being wonderful! I was upset but went with her wishes. Helping your wife shop and register for all the necessary baby gear is also of particular help, especially if it's for the first time. It takes some getting used to. All I can do is take care of me until the baby is born.
. I guess this is all part of the process of being pregnant, and I'm trying my hardest to understand the situation. I am scared of losing the person that I have fell in love with because she means the world to me. And far as stds go, I know she's clean because the doctor said so. I would get violently sick, and then my 3 year old would wake up and need me. I love my girlfriend and know she loves me but since she has been pregnant its as though she absolutely hates me. Now i know i have told you bad stuff i have done here, but there is miles and miles of good stuff, always helping around the house, working for her, helping with her home renovation, being thoughtful, breakfast in bed for her every morning, with her pregnancy tablets and a cup of tea.
I can't have this crazy friend in the delivery room. Just over a month ago she was saying our relationship is 98% great and 2% bad but now she is saying it was a troubled relationship and the last year was pure hell I am worried that too much damage has been done with arguing through upsetting each other. I'm a crazy bissshhhh to my man atleast 1hr of every day. And I use it for depression. I thank the three answers I have gotten already and pre-thank the ones that will come. Now she has a huge responsibility that neither of you protected her from.
Before she was pregnant she didn't complain at all, she would call me to come over all the time. It is important for you not to take what she says personally because I think down deep she really loves you so just hang in there and in time this will all work out for the best. We tried for 6 months for this baby and were both really pleased when we found out I was pregnant. And this it's the first time I've ever said 'knocked up', I see it more as blessing from God. When she first told me that she was pregnant I was really supportive to her and told her that I will be there for her and the unborn child no matter what and I respected her decision on whatever she decides to do. And I use it for depression. They hate their smells, their faces, and always criticize them after pronounced pregnant.
I don't really have friends that have kids, and my closest friend is getting married 2 weeks aftr my due date so she's wrapped up being bridezilla. And it didn't get better in the second trimester. First of all, please take a big breath and relax a bit. I don't think the poster cares what the friend's views on abortion are. Keeping that in mind, babies are life altering and she is prolly pretty scared and trying to assert her independence.
I asked which part, she said the last part ie, the sex. I hate to say it but it's true. I spoke to a few friends who have children and they say they have never heard of it being this bad. I was trying to find out if anyone else out there could help me with a related issue. How do I get through this one? Learning together is a type of intimacy that will be very helpful. I felt like I didn't want him in my life at all. Hey Rol It is really tough when it happens - look carefully at her behaviour - is she way more irritable and angry than usual, distancing herself? She finally told me that she needed some time alone, and well, I have never been in this situation before, so of course me being a guy, I was automatically confused as to what was going on.
Many times, intimate moments together can be of great support to your pregnant wife, since it helps her realize that you still love and desire her. However, it's an emotional roller coaster for me because one minute she loves me and hugs and kisses me and the next minute I feel she hates me. I think now is the time to take a step back and think outside of the box. My expectations have had to drop dramatically to take this into account. I feel like I'missing out on so much. All her stuff is here and her mail comes to my house.
The day after that she accused me of not wanting anything to do with the baby and she would be in touch in a few months. I sat in the cold trickling of the water until I realized I didn't have much time left to stand up. I get to spend about three hours a weekend with him. There are numerous other books and it may make your wife feel better to just know that you are reading a few of them. I feel so sorry and try to explain to him that I could not control myself.