We've been dating for a while and i am uncertain of our relationship because, we can't get married because of his status. I have invested way more then what I wanted to in this relationship financially, emotionally and time. One time an overnight- cannot call, text unless know it is safe. To my innocent I followed what she said, I did not know that they have planned to get his attention to their friend who could get his interest- petite type. No man should be obligated to support you unless you are married, or living together in a long term relationship.Next
That makes the potential reconnect so much more difficult. Please I have been reading and going through all the comments I most confess this site has helped me alot reading and learning from other people's experienced. I will not judge any woman who chooses to do that because that's life things happen, but you need to be strong if you want to play. She was his new wife's best friend and they all worked together at the job he had when we were married. He beg me to stay 15yrs ago i said u must going take care of me he said yes and im makin sure he do what he said i live along so we dont have to go to the hotel i know its going end bad but when he tried to cheat on me i have to let him know u beg me to stay now u trying to cheat on me see im not ur wife so i dont play that crap shyt im not in denial i made sure he video use makin love with my cell phone, he told me if anything happen to him he want me to be takin care of so im the beneficary on a insurance policy, he pay for my schooling ,got me a car,o with the insurance policy i have it and he give me the money for it everything is in my name so he cant take nuthin im not with my family but u still with ur so this how its going be u want to play lets play im not going out with just a broken heart and let someone manipulate,lie,cheat,and think he going have his cake and eat it to well i got a different route i will have a broken heart but i have a few thing i got out of it.Next
I am always wondering his true feelings for his wife even though they are separated. Put yourself in the shoes of others and do the right thing. I don't want him to leave his family. When we first met he said he haven't been married nor has any kids. Do You Have Healthy Relationship Boundaries? They had the 5 more kids that he always demanded that he wanted then Karma moved in on her like she moved in on my husband and he cut them all loose before any of the kids were even teenagers. He liked having access to me and i was a breath of fresh air in his busy mundane life. Then we kissed and kept doing it and after a month I invited him to my place.
Again, makes no sense to me here. The fact that he didn't end his relationship with his wife before starting to date you is something you need to seriously consider. JeepGirl Hi Marlene, So sorry you are hurting, sweetness. Yes this is hard because it's like I was in a full relationship with him and our bond has grew stronger, but I know this can't go anywhere. From the start is ok with the secrets, but not when you see that the relationship is getting serious thats the time you can still make it up and tell the truth. I was madly in love with him by then, and struggled for nearly a month before I finally decided to leave him.Next
Reality checked in when the first child they had was severely mentally and physically disabled and had extremely high needs. We've been in relationship for almost 3 years then he decided to go for arranged marriage. When I married him, he was unemployed and was not fit looking, I married him because I loved him and thought he was nice. And every time you ask him to walk out of his relationship, it would just lead to frustrated tears. Women who feel they can corral that man when he is separated from his partner often find themselves broken and disillusioned when that man continues his prior behavior. Even if he talks about how much he has been detached from his wife, he will always choose to be a husband and try to keep his family together especially if he has children.Next
Do not fall into this trap of false relationship which is nothing but illusion which gives only temporary pleasure and later it sucks the person into the quicksand. We have now been involved again for the last 3 months. The thing is he also asked me to marry him that night. There will be no future, but I have to do this to save myself. In short, dating a married man is cost effective. But in this situation, you are the other woman and you are coming between him and his family.Next
How would you feel if that happened to you? I decided to give love another chance and got married again not to my first husband but to a different man. Big daddy will walk me down the aisle, my bff will be my maid of honor and life will go on the way i hope it will. I had an affair with a much younger woman, who I met at work, of course. If he seems content to let the relationship go on for years as it is, you should see that he is using you for some fun on the side. He is everything to me and we love each other so much. He never answers those calls in front of me.Next
Don't Sacrifice Yourself for Him Women need to think and act the way men do to find happiness. That is why they are happier than women are. In fact, according to Andrea Bonior, PhD, a clinical psychologist who specializes in relationships, though the reverse is true for women. When push comes to shove, but way less with a married man, he will never be there when you need him the most. Take it somewhere, please, thank you very much.Next