Don't take this offensively, but. The man has to face a lot more social pressure than the woman when he is much older. Everything started to fail, with my husband's job, our money and our luck in general. We are hoping to marry and have children some time soon. We have so much fun together, and I can't imagine ever growing bored of this one. Do you think he is just thankful for the support? With the son he has far more energy than me, this is a thing that surprised me very much: every night is he to wake up and give milk to the baby.Next
Mainly about the liklihood or possibility of him getting ill and needing long-term care, and me spending the next 10-20 years of my life till I'm 60 taking care of him and not being able to do anything. We have been together for 3 years, married for 1. Again, thank for the points u mentioned, really really helpful! My mother has no problem with it, as long as we're both truly happily in love which surprised me immensely! We didn't realize the huge age difference at first… I guess I acted a bit older than I really am, and he acted much, much younger than he really was! One great thing about dating older men is that it makes you realize how important it is to savor this moment. If I was in my early 20s, I think my mother would have been worried. Anonymous Love this article, I'm 19 just recently became involved in a 34 year old man.Next
We've talked this to death, and I'm still not comfortable with the uncertaintly and the fear and the odds. This is a top secret affair although a few friends know. It is challenging in other ways as he is retired and I am working. I would love to hear from people in a similar age bracket… 35 — 54. Share your thoughts in the comments section below.Next
You have to honestly ask yourself is this something you want to be doing in your forties and fifties. I met him last year in September and never thought it would turn into something romantic. We plan to marry, and begin to save up more money and have a child together. I soon met a locally known man and we are now together — I 29, he 66. That said, I was straightforward with him and asked what he was looking for, what he wanted from me. But like I said, just be mindful, take things slowly, and if you later find that things aren't going to work out, then at least you'll know and won't be left wondering what might have been? What has come up so far with the age gap is she is a bit concerned because she wants to be married with kids at 30 - at which time I'd be 42. I am a 63 year old man, divorced for past 15 years.Next
My husband cant turn the clock back and I'm to young to be old. My fiance is 14 older than I am 23 and 37. Older men can produce amazing children. But nonetheless, it was the loveliest encounter. An older man's sperm usually cannot produce healthy babies.Next
This was really a miracle for us, thank you Stone master from the bottom of my heart! I am in love with a man who is 25 years older than I am. After 6 years into our marriage, I am very happy and have 3 children! It was a shame to let go of someone you are incredibly compatible with. It's simply a physical thing — I like the rugged skin, crow's feet and silver hair. Therefore let that certain desire be something wonderful, rather than disastrous for you and the other person. I never ever dated an older guy after that.Next
Neither of us has ever been married before, and we're both on the same procreation timeline. This young woman may be 27 years your junior, but at 33 she's a grown woman, and based on your description of her, it sounds like she's at a stage in her life where she knows what she's looking for. I dont find anything wrong with dating someone older, at 30 I had a relationship with a man who was 49, we had a mature emotional connection he was understanding, sincere and I liked it. I would never expect that from a man who is still in his twenties. We spent every weekend and most evenings together- he even took care of me for a couple of weeks after I had surgery.
Hopefully, you are comfortable enough in your own sense of moral and ethical values to be able to judge if the relationship is appropriate or not for example, I would imagine age can mess with a workplace romance or it could be difficult to date the father of a kid you teach. I have never loved anyone as much as what I love him. Love knows wrong from right and love trusts. You must consider the following differences before marrying or even getting into a relationship with an older man. I am a serious over-thinker and worrier, in all aspects of my life.Next