Chances are you are not going to start looking significantly older till you hit your mid 30's. They've been a couple for about 10 years now and have a young family. The heck with other's and what they think--they aren't living their lives for you, so don't live yours for them. I have no problem with the age difference. They have an agenda and interrogate me, looking for signs. Im quite surprised, and I think we are falling for each other.Next
I always had the feeling he would bail and hmmm he did but it is for the best! My parents objected and after a couple of years we parted ways only to get back together again when I was 22. As long as they are mature enough to handle a grown up situation. Not every woman in her 50s can enthral a chap more than two decades younger. And yeah it will most probably be short lived because I do want him to go live his life and do what most young guys do but for now I'm going to 'go with the flow' as they say and be kissed the way I've always wanted to be kissed, touched like a woman should be touched and held like your the best thing he's ever seen and doesn't want to let go. It makes me think of those movies or something. I think the thing I worry about is that when I was19, I thought I was ready for certain things, too.Next
I am entering my peak years, starting to think about retiring in ten years if all goes well, and he is still in the building phase. If we want some but not our own, hey there is always adoption. Not Everything, but we have been thru some things. People put too much of an emphasis on the number thing, when in reality, it should be what kind of person are they and how will you be treated by them. We broke it off and he looked for me again. Should I pursue it, or should I let it go knowing that she doesn't wanna do this? She's only scared of being judged by other people and her family gonna say.Next
I have now met and are seriously dating a 24 yr old beautifull young man with a good heart who I feel completly safe with and trust which is so important after a lifetime of not feeling safe and even worrying when slept would I actually wake up alive. She is an extremely intelligent, confident and interesting girl, also as a nice bonus extremely hot, the type that most guys drool over. If it must remain confidential, you can and we can verify you. I was with a 35 year old woman when I was 20. And because I like to have fun. I am fully prepared to take care of him.Next
. She may be in a different position than myself. Just give her some time and sometimes space. Seems like you guys are at very different stages in your lives. It seems that none of you give a relationship like this a chance. He has the most amazing smile and eyes.Next
You might also really have some fun together, and hell, if it gets serious, women live longer than men anyway. Older woman he wants to find in training, arranged in love with a 34-year old female. You never know, maybe the guy might change their mind about having kids. You never know who the great love of your life is going to be. I am a year and a half out of a relationship and in that time, I have found only one guy I was interested in but he did the vanishing act.
I'd probably start to feel a little creepy myself. I find his age of 19 to be more of a concern than the age difference. Julianna Moore with Bart Freundlich, Jennifer Lopez with Casper Smart, Katie Couric with John Molner, Jennifer Ainston with John Mayor, Halle Berry with Gabriel Aubry, Kate Hudson with Derek Hough, Sandra Bullock with Jon Gosling, Mariah Carey with Nick Cannon, and Demi Moore with Ashton Kutcher. These people are sharing real life experiences and your throwing around info out of a book, Internet or wherever else you get them. Raising a baby when you have adult kids over 18. A few years after my divorce, I was asked out to dinner by a handsome guy and accepted. Take it slow, make her feel like a woman.Next
All about getting your foot in the door, perhaps? Every man has his own definition of what is hot and sexy. I dated an older guy, and it would have been fine if he wasn't a psycho I think age is nothing but a number, what matters is how you feel with that person and how they treat you. What kind of values have you instilled in your daughter? With that said, when it comes to kids, 50s Men understand, on a deep, fundamental level if they are worth a damn, that is , that kids come before everything else in life, including ourselves. Quote: Originally posted by alphamale don't let how other people feel dictate your life and how u live it. We reach different phases of our lives as we get older and with each new phase comes change.Next