Here are 15 signs you should watch out for. It just depends on his actions and where he is in life. Apply the three strikes rule here. He will want to be with you and only you. His mom is his life, his world, his everything. He gives it a real shot even if it might not work out. He is too jealous While boys tend to be insecure and may find that any guy who comes to you, or talks to you, has ulterior motives and is a threat to the relationship, a man is more confident and will probably believe you and the story that the two have together.Next
He does not nod cluelessly when you talk. As a woman, you have to be extra careful when it comes to dating as you may come across many immature guys. Also, almost all of us have or will meet at least one person who acts exactly like this. He still believes that he lives in a world that would let him get away with anything if he tells enough lies. To him, you are a part of his life. And here for us, what mature woman would want to relate to a boy who needs that kind of thing? But, a man appreciates your beauty but he fell in love with you for your personality. Oh no, that would be way back when we were in kindergarten.Next
If your man knows what he wants out of life and gives all those things that are most important to him attention and care, then you have yourself a winner. Most women want to date men but for some reason, ironically, end up dating boys. He will be your biggest support and will make sure that you both get through the blizzard no matter what! It makes girls feel weird, because who is the real woman in your life here? There are certain specific indicators though that can make all the difference in the world. However, if he can not break this cycle at all, it is a case of thinking if this instability is not the result of immaturity. He is always putting you through tests in the relationship. Confidence not arrogance comes with maturity. Hope he changes and help him grow up, or toss him to the curb.
You can see him working and doing his best. While a man is works towards long-term vision, a boy is distracted by momentary pleasures. She's not going to step back, no matter how much you might want her to. These ideas intimidate him because he is still a little immature. He has dreams and aspirations, and these goals include you. Is he stubborn and constantly trying to win arguments? A man would respect you for who you are. So all you have to do is stay with this guy and pretend the world is on your side.Next
He is just coasting through life without any real vision. He only sees the end result, which is, well you know. In fact, his home and office are pretty much sanctuaries of his mom, decorated with photos from childhood to yesterday. You know, the one who is so obsessed with pleasing his mom that he ends up wanting you to do the same. After all, they are two different people together, so at one point or another a disagreement will arise and this can result in a more serious discussion.Next
He understands that in order to feel good, you have to feel healthy. He will admire you for stepping up and taking initiative. We all have that kind of teacher, right? Being silly and goofy is fun, right? In other words, he will push the boundaries and come close to crossing that line you should never cross in a relationship. Photo Courtesy: For More Of His Thoughts And Ramblings, Follow Paul Hudson On And. He wants to meet them and be present at their events and occasions with you.Next
You can trust him with yourself and your life. A boy can often be struggling to find his personal identity as a man, which carries over to him not knowing what role to play within your relationship. He has no ambition to improve his life in any way shape or form. A man will be clear about what he wants from this relationship, and if he truly loves you, he would address that you two can get married in the long run. A man who sees commitment as something so big it needs a mom, even when it means committing to a small decision. Not only in a relationship, but becoming more assertive and action-oriented allows you to obtain the things you desire in life much easier, because you actually have the confidence in yourself to to go after them, unapologetically.Next
Many of you might not agree with me but for me the criterion which differentiates boys from men is completely different. He thinks that the mother is supposed to always win, period. Needless to say you will definitely want to be dating a man if you are looking for something stable, consistent, and strong. What do I care what anybody says with poisonous shameful language stuck in their nasty ass mouth? A boy never falls short of excuses when he makes a mistake. A boy will play games to try and maintain the power in a relationship, while a man is confident and comfortable putting himself out there and letting go of power. Nor does it need to be extravagantly furnished, but you should be able to distinguish the floor from the rest of the place. Instead he will try to make sure, that you know you are the only girl in his world.Next