We don't look physically or energetically like there's an age gap. How would I go about doing this? As long as your life paths are similar, you should be just fine. We got along great and the age difference wasn't an issue for either of us. Phil uses the power of television to tell compelling stories about real people. It makes me think of those movies or something. If I were to date someone 19 now, I would have the same reservations as you. Last night I see him again at the restaurant and thia tome he asks me for a drink after work.
Does he realize he could get in trouble? When you say it only matters if you are happy, what you are saying is , you want to be happy! We are all so different, though. I feel embarrassed somewhat admitting or sharing the age difference to people. The 21 year old guy is still young enough to remember what that's like, and is hopefully in college, so relating to school is easy. It could be the best love affair of your life. Particularly during schoolies leavers week, so you get thirty year olds trying to pick up girls that just finished high school, and happy to ply them with another liquor and other shit to do it. I hope like you I can just go with the flow and have fun.
This young man may be filling a void in your life but be careful. Human relationships are incredibly complex and they depend a lot in many different factors. If he were 30 and you 49, then he would be an adult with likely enough life experiences, personally and professionally, to know what he wants in a life partner. I have shown friends pictures of her, asking them 'hey how do old do you think this girl is? I just think you might find a hard time finding things in common, particularly if she's living on campus and all her mates are students. This man adores me and I haven't had that in a very long time. . At this age it's so hard to find a man who's untainted by life.Next
I'm 42 and have cried because it's so unfair that this soul is leading a life that probably can't have me in it. She couldn't go out with him to the bars when the rest of us could and it led to her getting controlling and ended up pulling him away from us because she would get upset. Please do not think im some desperate teenager and she is some desperate 30 year old. I want to someday marry this man. Every day we get closer and closer and things are getting extremely serious, I want her to meet my parents. It's true that some factors increase the possibility of things working better, but things are too complex to try to fit everything in the biological age box. I had no idea what I wanted for a career, no real aspirations other than finishing school and earning money.Next
It's not terrible, but just be aware that even if the 3 years difference isn't much, you two are at different stages of life. Phil show provides the most comprehensive forum on mental health issues in the history of television. Those guys I find inappropriate and predatory, and there's usually a very simple explanation for it - they are complete losers who can only get laid getting teenagers drunk, and no woman their own age would have them. Perhaps you are suffering loneliness and some sort of abandonment? If he's ready and understands how you feel and you openly express that, I don't see why it would be a problem. Maybe if he'd known I'd move to Sweden a year later he may not have said that, but hindsights a bitch innit! People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. He tells me he's in love with me and so on. I would be afraid of taking her away from her youth.
The real thing to consider since you're both legally adults is what life experience you have in common. I took my son on a train trip and he was hanging out with a 19 year old guy. The older you are, the less age means anything at all. Who cares what anyone else says. I tell them that she is 30 and they can't believe it. They are living in the moment. You have a long life ahead of you, and being in a relationship with someone that has a kid, and you're only 18, - it's not worth it.Next
He has so much life ahead and many things to do and see. Do you really have the same goals in life? The point I brought up in my first post is that I see this a lot, human relationships being measured by the biological age and basically nothing else. He has much more to experience but i think it's worth it for now. She'll probably view it quite cautiously, but the fact you're still dating and going strong is a testament to the seriousness of which you both view the relationship. I read it way too often around here.Next
I'm somewhat surprised she hasn't asked where you go when you sleep around, regardless though, carefully obviously. That's a very fair point, but I think it omits an important aspect, which is common experience. And yeah it will most probably be short lived because I do want him to go live his life and do what most young guys do but for now I'm going to 'go with the flow' as they say and be kissed the way I've always wanted to be kissed, touched like a woman should be touched and held like your the best thing he's ever seen and doesn't want to let go. Dear confidence, Petty sure your not being honest with your post entirely, or yourself! People grow at totally different rates and their experiences vastly differ. She also has a 9 year old daughter. But be aware, understanding and realistic about the fast changing tides, emotions and direction of a person's life during their 20s.Next
An 18-year-old explains why he continues to date his 14-year-old girlfriend even though he is violating the law. He has the most amazing smile and eyes. All you can do is enjoy it while you are both happy in it. You're quite correct in that interest mutual interests can span decades. As often as possible, I will go to her house and we will sleep together and hangout and just have fun.Next
Think 5 years, 10 years, 15 years, 20 years, 25 years, etc. Mostly because his mother doesn't approve and he still lives with her. I am 31 and my boyfriend is 19 I'm talking a lot of heat! For the most part, I find them annoying. This is not even including emotional age which is incredibly important in human relationships, but it seems that most people are totally unaware of it. At 18, you've either recently graduated or are a high school senior. McGraw has used the show's platform to make psychology accessible and understandable to the general public by addressing important personal and social issues.Next