I would assume it is because my ex found out about his best friend and I. Ask him how would he like it if you were that close with your ex would he like or accept it I know he wouldn't. I think a witchy ex-wife would be more difficult to take. Ok here it is in a nutshell - tell him, no suggestions or bargaining. That made me jealous but I didn't say anything. Because she knows she is still his wife.Next
His best friend was around us a lot in general, albeit never was too talkative. You will become resentful towards your boyfriend and his ex-wife. He will only leave you if he is not serious about you or care about your feelings. Yeah, you remember how awesome it was with him. So it's a question of whether I can live with it or not.Next
When my ex was leaving his best friend in the dark about everything and spent more time with girls, the best friend and I confided in each other. Your boyfriend and his ex-wife need to sit down and talk to. When and how to tell other people If you want to be open with other people about your relationship, it would probably be a good idea to talk to your ex about what is going on. The thought of him not in my life is a difficult thought and that's why we are still together. My bf has assured me over and over again that I have nothing to worry about.Next
I told him I don't do baby mama or baby daddy because it's nothing but drama. I made a big deal about it, rightfully so. Six years and still no divorce, they are not getting divorce. I wish I could mend their relationship, but I know it is between my ex and his ex-best friend. Its also hard when his mother, siste,r friends, etc tell me it's ok and that hes just loyal to the mother of his kid and it's me he loves.
There our people that can deal with this sort of friendship between a ex-husband and ex-wife, but not everyone can. Although he betrayed me and was seeing someone else, it still hurts to have your best friend betray you. If you have absorbed these messages then you may feel there is something wrong or bad in what you are doing. Yet, one night, we went to a concert together to talk, and it ended with us making out lots of beer was involved. Do you think he is worth putting up with these feeings? Uninvite the ex wife, if he wants a thanksgiving dinner then the ex wife should have dinner at her house and if he goes then you will know. Things went well the 1st year, the second year, I find now it's time to meet the ex-wife, she a nice person, easy to talk to, a bit brassy but nice.
The cord has to be cut it's been 2 years that's long enough. My boyfriend and I plan to move in together next summer, but I feel skittish about it. They will have to stay in each others lives for the sake of the children but she does not need to come over all the time and depend on him to keep helping her. I really like this man, and he's a great person. I'm just not comfortable with this. Note: If you do decide to go forward, some people will always question your motives and morals for getting involved. Here are four questions to ask yourself before you get involved.
She would pop in to his house any time she felt like it, and take items from his freezer for her new family. We have unspoken cultural taboos about friendships, often with advice from friends and self-help books suggesting these should have priority over relationships. Never compromise your values for a man even this one. It really comes down to how much you want this guy in your life. I assumed it was just a one-off - but turns out he felt the same.Next
He's been married once because of a unplanned pregnancy that lasted about a year. Ironically, one of the things that drew me to him was the fact that he said he was still best friends with his ex-wife. As was mentioned, you did get involved with a man who was married to someone else and had children with them. I love him very much and Im sure he loves me, but I don't know if I can live with a man who's best friend is his ex wife. I too, feel I have the same relationship with my ex-husband.Next