Sometimes I get anxious or depressed thinking about not having my best friend, but when I read threads like these, it helps me. She took a trip back to her family overseas and was away for 6 weeks. Yeah when I was 15 I dont think I would even consider going anywhere near a 12 year old. Be it chores, time or the other dish that I wanted to taste at the restaurant we are at, I love to share. They ask me what am i thinking and ask,how could i be attracted to someone who could be my father? Remember that the guy is not in search of harming the little girl.Next
I also know someone my same age whose father was 75 when we graduated college and it created a lot of issues for her and her mom, who was a lot younger. What a 28 year old and a 21 year old are going to have are different levels of experience. What I learned during that summer: age doesn't matter! You don't have to tell her you're doing it You might uncover some things you don't want to know, but you'll know how to better protect yourself and your family. I did meet him when he was married but I completely understood the boundaries and that there wont ever be anything more. I don't know about you, but I when I was 21, I didn't know shit about shit though I certainly thought I did. And that is why i think it is wrong.
What if the love between a 20 year old and a 12 year old was pure and true. This site is published by T-1 Today, Inc. Anonymous Audrey, i'm in a very similar situaton. It was about the connection between individuals. I am very mature for my age so I think that is why we get along so well. So many dead end dates and wasting time until I was on the phone canceling my membership and requesting my profile be removed and a message popped up right that moment. And yes, a 20 year old is a pedo by society but that is not wrong.Next
I grew up with a mother that did everything for me so I never learned how to do things myself. My opinion if you are willing to make that change in your life to relocate to another country for love and its geniune of both parties then why not. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. At that precise moment, I gave up. But my biggest piece of advice is dont push the breakup for his current girlfriend. If you don't plan on having a kid or having a long term relationship with him, it would be fine.Next
I have become friends with a stranger from the internet who is 50 years old. But does not mean it is wrong. We knew each other for a year before we started dating. Do you hurt the child while giving them oral sex? I hate to think of it this way but its my fear! I'm struggling with how strict I should remain with a technically adult daughter. So just be open with her and she will understand, have a great day i am 31 and my bf was 19 its too difficult for me to understand i have doubt bt. I was so shocked because during our whole talk, I made sure to have kept a secure distance with him.Next
Also, I don't know you but if you dated much older men when you were young, it kind of perpetuated this. They question my love for him and don't agree at all. Well, wait and see what happens, I guess. My fiance is 30+ years older than I am I am 37 , but we just fit together somehow. People who are sexually attracted to kids need some major psychiatric help! Wen he asked me out he told me he had been divorced for 11yrs nd wants to settle down now. We have been together for 3 years, married for 1. Think again because if you do, then you are wrong to be sexually attracted to someone aswell.Next
I really liked this guy, and we were seeing each other for a couple months. Discuss her goals like college, ect and the ramifications of not being careful with sex which I'm sure you already have done. It's kind of weird when one you express wanting to do something and having your partner say, Oh, I did that a long time ago… When I was your age I did this and that… eg. It is meant to feed the child. If you are both happy with each other, age is irrelevant My ex and I started going out when he was 21 and I was 31. I saw him from far but with distracted eyes. And pedophilia is not child molestations in which i think it is wrong.Next
If the young man is willing to hang out at your house in order to spend time with your daughter and interacts comfortably with you and your husband, I think I'd let it go. I've made the best decision of my life by choosing to ignore what society says and following instead, what my heart's telling me. It could end up giving serious problem later in life. I have tried, many times, to not feel the way that I do, but I have come to realize that it is so much more than a feeling. You might try talking with your daughter about your concerns, but I don't think I would out right forbid her from seeing him. I am in love with a man who is 25 years older than I am. Just because some do, does not mean all do.
When I have a child who is younger than my grandchildren it will freak a lot of people out, and will be one for the books! He cannot be my boyfriend because he is still married… but we are very much in love, even though the relationship has no future. Love knows wrong from right and love trusts. . Briena, I know young women like to think they are so mature, but they don't seem to have much common sense or life experience. But I think you'll probably be in your 40's yourself before this realization kicks in.Next
I could not have a better companion, lover, friend, confidant and the understanding beyond measure. I respect that you hate for a baby to have oral sex. But when you're in love it doesn't matter. Did you ever hear that story about when Columbus landed in the West Indies and the natives were not physically able to see the boats because nothing like that had ever entered their reality before? Ever since I was 15, Ive had a crush on this guy who was 8 years older than me we go to church together and our families know each other well. However, the minute you two are alone there will be a strong presumption that something has occurred and it will be in your parents hands to file any criminal complaint.Next